Welcome to How Not To Screw Up Your Kids

What I know for sure is, if we want to raise confident, resilient, courageous children, and reduce anxiety, we have to look at the family as a whole. What works, what doesn’t, what are the common triggers, how do different family members react, what have you tried before, and in what ways have your own life experiences shaped your journey???

Joining my membership is all about being part of a wider family of parents. I will be with you each at each and every step of the way; encouraging you to keep going, holding a safe space when you need it, and teaching you how to plan, implement, and review what will become your own family toolkit of strategies.

As a psychologist and Mum of two you might think my role involves a lot of telling people what to do, that I have a magic route map for success and happiness. However, what I have become surer of over the years is that the right route map differs wildly from one family to another. My job is therefore to help parents of children who struggle with low confidence or anxiety by teaching them practical tools and strategies, which work for their family; helping move their child from angst to courage, so everyone feels confident, calm, and connected. Once you have those tools and strategies those day to day parenting challenges become easier to navigate. The route map becomes easier to read and parenting becomes a whole lot more enjoyable.